NigNogging

Living life one day at a time

It’s much easier to not know things sometimes. Things change and friends leave. And life doesn’t stop for anybody. I wanted to laugh. Or maybe get mad. Or maybe shrug at how strange everybody was, especially me. I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and then make the choice to share it with other people. You can’t just sit there and put everybody’s lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can’t. You have to do things. I’m going to do what I want to do. I’m going to be who I really am. And I’m going to figure out what that is. And we could all sit around and wonder and feel bad about each other and blame a lot of people for what they did or didn’t do or what they didn’t know. I don’t know. I guess there could always be someone to blame. It’s just different. Maybe it’s good to put things in perspective, but sometimes, I think that the only perspective is to really be there. Because it’s okay to feel things. I was really there. And that was enough to make me feel infinite. I feel infinite.
— Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

I guess. I’m just done with feelings for a while ya know? like I want to just do me for right now. worry about myself and figuring my shit out. getting over things and focusing on school. just making myself happy before I worry about trying to make someone else happy too.

—Anonymous (via avvfvl)

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I’ve learned a lot this year… I learned that things don’t always turn our the way you planned, or the way you think they should. And I’ve learned that there are things that go wrong that don’t always get fixed or get put back together the way they were before. I’ve learned that some broken things stay broken, and I’ve learned that you can get through bad times and keep looking for better ones, as long as you have people who love you.

—Jennifer Weiner, Good in Bed (via icantgrowanewheart)

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And you became like the coffee, in the deliciousness, and the bitterness and the addiction.

— Mahmoud Darwish  (via oublies)

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absentions:

And if you’re still up at 4 a.m.,

you are in love or lonely,

and I don’t know which one is worse.

(Source: absentions)

Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Sometimes you’ll put up a good fight and lose. Sometimes you’ll hold on really hard and realize there is no choice but to let go. Acceptance is a small, quiet room.

Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar (via avvfvl)

Acceptance is a small, quiet room.

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anamorphosis-and-isolate:

― Short Term 12 (2013)Grace: Why are you so nice to me? Mason: It’s because you are the weirdest, most beautiful person that I’ve ever met in my whole entire life.

anamorphosis-and-isolate:

― Short Term 12 (2013)
Grace: Why are you so nice to me?
Mason: It’s because you are the weirdest, most beautiful person that I’ve ever met in my whole entire life.

(via vodkacupcakes)

Date someone who is interested in you. I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. Someone who wants to read every word you write. Someone who wants hear every note of your favourite song, and watch every scene of your favourite movie. Someone wants to find every scar upon your body, and learn where each one came from. Someone who wants to know your favourite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. There is a difference between attraction and interest. Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.

—Me (via stayy-for-tonight)

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